Boyfriend /family stuff.?

Well I think that since you are with him and he loves you and you love him both of you should have good communication then you should talk with him about your concerns and also have him talk with his family and let them know that this is your day and that they need to respect his wishes if they would like to proceed to be invited to the wedding .... just talk to your man and let him know that this is worrying you and to please talk to his family .... good luck and best wishes ...